Hindsight

Some people lose touch with what they truly want by overdefending or justifying their position. Rather than make up after an argument by looking at how they contributed to the problem, they refuse to acknowledge their contribution until the other person apologizes first. By making their feelings of regret and responsibility depend on whether they get an apology, they disconnect with their inner desire to learn from everything and grow. They justify what they did rather than feel true compassion or remorse.

Sorry for burning Snappers Pub Down 😀 😀 😀 Anna :diablo: 😀 😀