IL2 FB — including AEP if you want to try you hand at online gaming.
Lockon — for the modern stuff
FS2004 — for less violent trips and the associated sea of brilliant addons
Battlefield 1942 — not a true flight sim, but great fun
Combat Flight sim 3 — if you get bored of IL2 (as if)
Secret Weapons over Normandy — for some light hearted hollywood inspired action
Pacific fighters should be out soon, Fair strike for some rotary combat although I haven’t looked at this for some time.