Extra-marital Affairs – Good or Bad?

Bad, unless you both agree (Which is still actually bad) or you both take part in the party. Still makes a mockery of the vows but I know a couple that do this swinging lark, and they enjoy it. (I’m sure I would, if I didn’t like my missus LoL!)

Sh1t happens 😉 My ex is on to his 5th wife ! :D:D Still at least he bought each of us a house ! :D:diablo:

You’d have thought he’d have got the hang of it by now wouldn’t you.
What number where you?

As for the thread,i have french and Italian friends who feel different about infidelity.As for me the jury’s out,never say never.

Sh1t happens 😉 My ex is on to his 5th wife ! 😀

The triumph of optimism over experience. 🙂

Sh1t happens 😉 My ex is on to his 5th wife ! :D:D Still at least he bought each of us a house ! :D:diablo:

No thats just John Terry :D;).

Like I always said, You like what you’ve got until you see what your mates got, then you want a piece of that as well, and that goes for men and women:diablo:

Elizabeth Taylor is getting married for the umpteenth time. She’s never needed an affair.

…..then again, with the carp the Mrs is throwing at me these past few months….:

That sounds a bit fishy to me.

Maybe she’s only codding?

If hers is green, I’d get myself checked out… 😉

Don’t worry, I have a weed wacker and John Deere for protection…:eek:

a part of me says, two consenting adults, the privacy of their own (hotel ?) room etc, a “victimless” sin etc. Then again somebody will get hurt, then its not victimless is it ?

then again, with the carp the Mrs is throwing at me these past few months, a few hours of making whoopie could be just what the doctor ordered…. :confused:

Because you might have to…er…declare an interest, perhaps.;)

No,no, no – don’t do it? It almost never, ever works out for the better.

oh I dont know, 2 wonderfull kids and 7 happy years , says differant 😀

Bad.

Very bad.

Dishonesty always is.

I agree it is bad , but I cant really make any comments.;)

But it happens. The grass is always greener…ect, etc,.

If hers is green, I’d get myself checked out… 😉

Of course it’s bad to break a vow and be dishonest with someone you love.
But it happens. The grass is always greener…ect, etc,.
I’m sure it’s exciting, flattering and a jolly bit of fun.

I can’t believe that the spouses of some high profile people, film stars, athletes, etc. let their husbands go away for weeks/months at a time and really honestly expect him to behave himself. I’d wager that as long as long as it remains discreet, not much is said.
Rather like the stories we hear of the English upper class and royalty.:D

It’s easy for the average guy to behave himself, but given the attraction of money and fame, I’ll go out on a limb here and say that it’s easy for celebrities to be tempted.

Some spouses put up with it for the sake of any children…or more cynically, to maintain their lifestyle and prestige as “Mrs. So-and-so.”

And sorry to sound cynical…but if husbamds and wives knew they could get away with it…there would be a lot more of it.

I wonder what the percentages of unfaithful couples are in areas where openly (but discreetly) having a lover on the side is tolerated? And how that compares to more conservative sexual cultures?

No,no, no – don’t do it? It almost never, ever works out for the better.

Bad. Simple.

Bad.

Very bad.

Dishonesty always is.

The intrigue and deception are intoxicating but remember that most people will not get away with it forever. 😉

There will be a line to cross where divorce is the only solution.:)

I haven’t tried it, but it must be like having your own car and then driving somebody else’s:D