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If you walked under a bus…

Hope this doesn’t sound too morbid, especially on such a lovely summer’s day, but if you suddenly met your maker, would your affairs be in order? Any wrongs you need to right, any records need setting straight, anything you should have said or done but never found the right time? I married comparatively late in life, and for many years happilly led a lifestyle that a widowed Mrs C probably wouldn’t be comfortable knowing about. Nothing illegal or even immoral, I hasten to add. Got some mementos hidden away in the loft, and whilst I wouldn’t like Mrs C to find them when I’ve gone, I’m extremely reluctant to part with those reminders of my personal history. Any thoughts?

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By: Flygirl - 8th June 2011 at 07:18

Well, I want this played at my send off party. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SVdoZNxtL8k . 🙂

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By: DazDaMan - 7th June 2011 at 06:42

I can’t decide between Evanescence’s Bring Me To Life, The Jam’s Going Underground, or Meat Loaf’s Bat out of Hell… :diablo:

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By: benyboy - 7th June 2011 at 02:21

i think i’d like pink floyds ” wish you were here ” played at my funeral

works on many levels depending on what you thaught of certain individuals !!

I think I would go for `Coming back to life` 😀

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By: BumbleBee - 4th June 2011 at 23:56

I’m having this by Linkin Park,even if I’m 100 –

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rafbua1sFP8

All this week my husband and I’ve been taking turns to visit our friend who’s in the hospice.
It’s obvious that he’s dying,but none of us can mention this,even though we’ve known each other for more than forty years.
It’s so strange,but we’ll keep on visiting for as long as possible.

Guys, get yourselves checked regularly for prostate cancer.

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By: tornado64 - 4th June 2011 at 23:20

i think i’d like pink floyds ” wish you were here ” played at my funeral

works on many levels depending on what you thaught of certain individuals !!

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By: PeeDee - 4th June 2011 at 22:47

Well, we are at the age when if something isn’t leaking it means it’s dried up.

So, when a fellow olde git, who isn’t 100% ready for the Olympics, goes AWOL, we fear.

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By: Sky High - 4th June 2011 at 20:12

Now you see how you are missed…….;):)

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By: PeeDee - 4th June 2011 at 19:57

James. Ditto, when I am gone whats it matter, you have looked after your family all your life, let them have a taste of sorting every thing out,and know what it’s like;)
Jim.

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Oh, you’re back. Leave us a note when you’re going forum AWOL. We don’t know if you’re logging on from up there, down there or at home!

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By: Lincoln 7 - 4th June 2011 at 09:42

Nope, and neither would I care!:)

Hopefully I will be run over by a bus by the time I get to hear Knowall Gallaghers’ version of There Is a Light That Never Goes Out!:eek:

James. Ditto, when I am gone whats it matter, you have looked after your family all your life, let them have a taste of sorting every thing out,and know what it’s like;)
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By: BSG-75 - 4th June 2011 at 09:36

Interesting point, I had to rewrite my will lately after the divorce and I thought along the same lines. I’m fairly certain (and hope !) that the end is the end, so anything people do find is too late to matter!

I thought about leaving the ex a message (my solicitor had a client who left his ex wife a shovel so she could keep digging…… ) of some kind, but she has my contempt and she knows it. I expect the same goes in return.

I did the mechanics of a will and left my books and die-cast models to Midland and Newark Musuems on a 50/50 split, sorted out a 50/50 split of funds for the kids, a small chunk to NSPCC and RAF benevolent fund, asked for some specific music at my non religious send off, and I am Ok to be judged by those that knew me, how they knew me.

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By: Lincoln 7 - 4th June 2011 at 09:36

Just make sure that you’re holding Mrs C hand when walking under said bus.
Problem solved:diablo:

nice one Baz:D
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By: Sky High - 4th June 2011 at 08:02

No point in regretting, what’s done is done. If the bus hits me, that’s it. There will be no skeletons in the cupboard for the family to deal with.

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By: PeeDee - 3rd June 2011 at 23:30

Then you need to download “The dreams we have as children” by Noel. It was for the Teenage Cancer Trust. The album was a freebie in the Sunday papers so downing it won’t upset the record labels.
That, and many Oasis songs were coverd acoustically and superbly. With guest Paul Weller for a couple of numbers.

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By: pagen01 - 3rd June 2011 at 23:09

but if you suddenly met your maker, would your affairs be in order?

Nope, and neither would I care!:)

Hopefully I will be run over by a bus by the time I get to hear Knowall Gallaghers’ version of There Is a Light That Never Goes Out!:eek:

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By: DazDaMan - 3rd June 2011 at 22:55

I wouldn’t like to think that I hadn’t said certain things – such as telling people how you really feel – but I think most of my affairs would be sorted out.

Mind you, given events over the last 12 months, this topic of discussion is quite poignant…!

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By: PeeDee - 3rd June 2011 at 22:13

One of the finest songs by one of UK’s finest lyricists!
Covered very well by Noel Gallagher too.

And if a double-decker bus
Crashes into us
To die by your side
Is such a heavenly way to die
And if a ten-ton truck
Kills the both of us
To die by your side
Well, the pleasure – the privilege is mine

All my stuff is in order. No skeletons in the loft, all thrown away years ago. Souvinirs yes, photo’s of ex’s, all binned.

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By: spitfireman - 3rd June 2011 at 22:10

Hope this doesn’t sound too morbid, especially on such a lovely summer’s day, but if you suddenly met your maker, would your affairs be in order? Any wrongs you need to right, any records need setting straight, anything you should have said or done but never found the right time? I married comparatively late in life, and for many years happilly led a lifestyle that a widowed Mrs C probably wouldn’t be comfortable knowing about. Nothing illegal or even immoral, I hasten to add. Got some mementos hidden away in the loft, and whilst I wouldn’t like Mrs C to find them when I’ve gone, I’m extremely reluctant to part with those reminders of my personal history. Any thoughts?

Just make sure that you’re holding Mrs C hand when walking under said bus.
Problem solved:diablo:

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By: tornado64 - 3rd June 2011 at 22:06

and all with the same people although i’d probably spend less time with my family !!

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By: tornado64 - 3rd June 2011 at 22:04

wouldn’t change a thing had an unmemmorable 80’s mainly due to sex , booze , drugs , fast bikes and just as fast women

abused my body in bike crashes ( and fights )

not settled down , my lifes too precious to waste doing what others want

in a nutshell i’d do every little bit the same

the chance to do it twice would be freekin awesome !!:diablo:

amendment … OK maybe i would have paid more attention to brake servicing shortly before i slammed a stone wall after a downhill accident

bonus ..i missed the bus …. non bonus .. six months on crutches and a permanent gammy leg !!

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By: Mr Creosote - 3rd June 2011 at 22:03

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