Love thy neighbour.

I think we are saying the same thing in a different way.

Perhaps we have been forced into intolerance because the culture which bred our sense of tolerance is no more.

The culture is still there, it’s just that the things that made us tolerance have been forceably taken away from us.

Lincoln. 7

Perhaps we have been forced into intolerance because the culture which bred our sense of tolerance is no more.

holy cow !! if i took offence i’d have a list the height of blackpool tower

( and that’s just from one friend and in one week )

I think most of us would. I seem to be nodding my head an agreeing with all these posts. How did we ever manage to breed such an intolerant society when the traditional British attitude was so laid back it was almost horizontal?

2nd best is 100% variable to each and every person. I have my preferences and you have yours. There are some preferences that I will not compromise on, where there is a choice.
If I’m on a desert island and the only female around looks like John Prescot, then needs must!
But I’m not, and I have plenty of choice. Had, I’m doing life now.

I don’t take 2nd best

Please define “second best” and explain exactly what “second best” is relative to. What exactly is ‘first best’? See the problem?…

Just aside from the main point, I’m certainly aware of Malmsteen having worked with him. 😉

I’m not “Writing them off”. That’s a total misrepresentation.
What on Earth is wrong with having a dislike to somebody elses culture? It’s theirs, they can have it, but I don’t want it in my life 24/7/365 just because the other part of that person is a nice personality.
What is wrong with anybody having the right to choose what they like or dislike, in people or whatever. So no, I certainly would not make a move to a girl that I did not find attractive, because no matter what she is like…the lack of lustful attraction will kill it off in the end. Unless of course ones proclavity is based on seeking the “Challenged”.
When girls I don’t fancy have hit on me, I’ve not been rude (They may have a mate who’s a looker!) but I’ve never allowed it to develop more than idle chat, it can lead into all sorts or Rabbit warrens.
As for the uber Germans, I totally agree with what you say. But you can sort of guarantee certain traits in Germans. they don’t accept rubbish beer for a start. They make superb cars. They are indeed precise, to a lesser or greater extent. Obviously, the latter trait can be found everywhere.
Shallow? No, where I can choose, I don’t take 2nd best for fear there won’t be another chance……there always will be.

I once went to a Christian Rock festival, (And enjoyed despite some very twisted evangelical ramblings on the stage). I only went because there was a strong rumour that Yngwie Malmsteen (Whom I’m sure you’ll know as a fellow twanger) was making an unanounced appearance. He didn’t! Why he should have I dunno, I’m not aware he was a follower.

My view of the world is not narrow.

Yes it is. When you write off entire populations of countries, that’s narrow.

On the subject of religion, don’t get me wrong, I have absolutely no problem openly stating I have quite a deep dislike of religion because I think too many people use it as a reason to justify outdated ideals, extremist opinions or simply as a means of exerting control over others. Even when I was at school I thought there were surely more worthwhile things we could be taught than what I view to be made up fairytales or information with no absolute evidence whatsoever passed down over the last 2000 years, but nonetheless, I’m more than happy to accept people believing whatever they want to believe as long as they do so in a way that doesn’t directly affect others. I did the sound for a large outdoor church gig/gathering last year with bishops and all kinds of people there and I have to say, it was absolutely wonderful. The people were very polite, warm, welcoming, genuine, gentle natured, and generally just thoroughly decent. They happily accepted the fact me and the guy I was working with were non-believers and they didn’t even bat an eyelid, even though we were at their event. It was one of the most pleasant gigs I’ve ever done and I can certainly see why that kind of life appeals to many, but it doesn’t change the fact I don’t believe what they do so I can never be a part of it. I still don’t quite get why it’s a part of the curriculum though, I genuinely believe there are far more worthwhile and useful things that could be taught but then again, as far as these particular people are concerned and those like them I’m in no position to question their faith. It’s theirs, after all.

As for travelling, I’ve travelled a fair bit myself and I’ve spent a hell of a lot of time touring Germany over the years. Sure you come across the occasional person who’s ‘ultra-German’ (as I call it), but for the most part they’re just human beings like anyone else. In no way can I see the logic in saying something as broad as “the Germans are too precise”. I’ve seen plenty of examples of things done badly in Germany that have been perfect for me in places like Severomorsk in Russia (a military base where the Northern fleet is based) or out of the way places like The Azores. Go figure…

Yes it does, if that’s what one does to your kids.
Mine come home with the compulsory teachings of the Bible (Police state or what!). I tell them what the Koran says about the same matter, and what the Buddhists think. Let him decide when he’s older. You know my views on Religion…powerful lies amongst an argument about who has the best imaginary friend(s).
My view of the world is not narrow. My opinion is based on seeing most of it through work, holidays and back-packing and then drawing a conclusion. Some of which is a sterotype, but they are 80-90% correct anyway. No smoke without fire as they say. I’ve been to Mexico, thus I cannot see what was wrong with what Clarkson said, given that it is a light entertainment programme. If it was a Book review or a Politics show, it wouldn’t be appropriate.

Why waste lifespan getting to know somebody that, deep down, you know you don’t fancy or support (Culture wise). It’s bound to turn bad, especially as one is supposed to sign up for the long haul if you plan kids.

Good point, but then again what’s the point in having kids at all when your view of the world is so narrow you won’t be able to teach your kids to have a balanced appreciation of the world? Ignorance breeds ignorance. 😉

I’d suggest you all stop rising to the bait, before you’re suckered into a CoC violation…. :rolleyes:

There aint no bait being cast! “General discussion”.
Ignorance? Same ignorance that calls it Paddy’s Wigwam instead of Teepee.
Harmless language colloquialisms, like Hoover, Biro.
So, if I say “I’m going to Hoover the floor, where’s the Dyson”, every normal person will know exactly what I mean and only a serious case of pedanticitis would bother to correct it or even bother to care.

Shallowness? Like I said, why ever settle for 2nd best, on anything. If that means overlooking somebody you don’t like before you even know them, then that is good. Why waste lifespan getting to know somebody that, deep down, you know you don’t fancy or support (Culture wise). It’s bound to turn bad, especially as one is supposed to sign up for the long haul if you plan kids.

As for us Brits, we are now rubbish at most things, possibly because we are a diluted Nation run by mindless idiots that I wouldn’t trust to cross the road with.

I’d suggest ignorance not shallowness as that is where it all stems from.

I’d suggest you all stop rising to the bait, before you’re suckered into a CoC violation…. :rolleyes:

inkworm, Your not alone, I honestly think there are times you have to rise above it, water off a ducks back, and all that, after all they are only words, and lets face it, the person who has never made a mistake, has yet to be born. 😉

Lincoln .7

I get the **** taken on my accent and where I come from occasionally, sometimes the jokes are funny, sometimes not but unless it was intentionally malicious or spiteful I can’t say I care.

There can at times be a fine line between comedy and hatred but a little common sense can (if present) go a long way.

Well tried, Linc!!;);)

I detest certain cultures, the French need updating, the Germans are too precise and the Jews should be running the Middle East

And us Brits have everything just right, do we?

This is getting silly and it’s like watching a game of tennis at Wimbledon, just point scoring, however valid the points made are.
Just to attempt to get back on track again. about two or three years ago, I am not 100% sure exactly, but at a Police Station,in Scotland, there was a Constable and a Sgt on duty at the same station, one called the other “Jock” to which the one the remark was made against to complain, and a case of Racism was brought against the one who called the other Jock, both were were true blooded Bravehearted Scots. The one who complained of being the butt of racism won his day in Court, thats just how stupid we have got in this Country.
Lincoln .7

The depth of your shallowness is astounding.

Regards,

kev35

I’d suggest ignorance not shallowness as that is where it all stems from.

There you go again.
What on Earth is shallow about picking the person that is right for you?

The depth of your shallowness is astounding.

Regards,

kev35