Four inches here near Gatwick,still snowing and as quiet as the grave.
Despite this,my Mum’s carers turned up this morning.All credit to them,because some of them travel a long way to get to her.
Please,if you’ve got elderly friends or neighbours,give them a ring to make sure they’re all right.
I’m going back to my straw-filled box in the garage.
That is so good to hear, Bumblebee. My experience of these people with both my mother-in-law and my mother was nothing but respect and admiration. Perhaps we were lucky but they are often denigrated so it is good to hear good stories about them.:)
We’ve got plenty of morons like that in the UK, Steve, as you are no doubt well aware. In fact probably rather more than in a number of other countries. It’s getting to be an industry here………………..:mad:
We’ve got plenty of morons like that in the UK, Steve, as you are no doubt well aware. In fact probably rather more than in a number of other countries. It’s getting to be an industry here………………..:mad:
Old Shape – sounds as though your Economics studies were very political, whereas mine were more History and Theory.
And history tells us that common currencies don’t work if the members retain separate fiscal identies. Hence the EU’s passion for federalism.
And of course for many lesson 1 in Primary Economics is leave the EU at all costs………….
Old Shape – sounds as though your Economics studies were very political, whereas mine were more History and Theory.
And history tells us that common currencies don’t work if the members retain separate fiscal identies. Hence the EU’s passion for federalism.
And of course for many lesson 1 in Primary Economics is leave the EU at all costs………….
One thing that always cheeses me off about this country is the fact that everyone loves a loser. We all supported Eddie Edwards, Frank Bruno, Tim Henman etc etc. These people were losers, end of story, but we all love them.
I feel this is inherent within society, even in school they teach you “it’s not the winning that counts, but the taking part”. This is b****ks. It’s the winning that counts, I will never teach my daughters that it’s the taking part that counts. This attitude is why we used to be so bad at everything. We have no killer instinct, no drive, no determination. Luckily with the cricket team this has changed somewhat.
That is true but surely we also adulate winners like Lewis Hamilton, Seb Coe, Freddie Flintoff, Geoff capes, Tom Daley, Jackie Stewart, Jim Clark and from many years ago I remember our sporting heroes included Roger Bannister and Chris Chataway, Stirling Moss and Mike Hawthorn, Denis Compton and Len Hutton and the list could go on.
Perhaps the difference is that here we love both – winners and losers, whereas in other countries it’s only the winners who matter.
One thing that always cheeses me off about this country is the fact that everyone loves a loser. We all supported Eddie Edwards, Frank Bruno, Tim Henman etc etc. These people were losers, end of story, but we all love them.
I feel this is inherent within society, even in school they teach you “it’s not the winning that counts, but the taking part”. This is b****ks. It’s the winning that counts, I will never teach my daughters that it’s the taking part that counts. This attitude is why we used to be so bad at everything. We have no killer instinct, no drive, no determination. Luckily with the cricket team this has changed somewhat.
That is true but surely we also adulate winners like Lewis Hamilton, Seb Coe, Freddie Flintoff, Geoff capes, Tom Daley, Jackie Stewart, Jim Clark and from many years ago I remember our sporting heroes included Roger Bannister and Chris Chataway, Stirling Moss and Mike Hawthorn, Denis Compton and Len Hutton and the list could go on.
Perhaps the difference is that here we love both – winners and losers, whereas in other countries it’s only the winners who matter.
I prefer to regard myself as a realist. Let’s face it we are rubbish at sport due to the lack of really serious investment in the youth sector for training facilities.
I hate folk who say I told you so but I told you so:D:D
Well I partly agree but we have won the Ashes from time to time and we have won a good few Rugby Internationals and the world Cup and we picked up a few medals at the last Olympics. We could be better and we could have far better youth training facilities, that’s true, but what we are good at is talking our hopes and aspirations down. We lack real self-belief much of the time and perhaps that’s a cultural trait.
I prefer to regard myself as a realist. Let’s face it we are rubbish at sport due to the lack of really serious investment in the youth sector for training facilities.
I hate folk who say I told you so but I told you so:D:D
Well I partly agree but we have won the Ashes from time to time and we have won a good few Rugby Internationals and the world Cup and we picked up a few medals at the last Olympics. We could be better and we could have far better youth training facilities, that’s true, but what we are good at is talking our hopes and aspirations down. We lack real self-belief much of the time and perhaps that’s a cultural trait.
Just because decisions are final doesn’t mean they can’t be questioned. Those of us who’ve been on this forum for a good few years and spent a lot of time here have seen the changes its been through and frankly, for whatever reason those changes have ultimately been for the worse. What we’re trying to do is find reasons why the changes have been negative and see if we can make these forums a better place, more like they were 4-5 years ago (and even before, although going further back is beyond my time here). Although the subject of moderation is how this discussion came to light, that isn’t the sole issue and this thread is giving all of us a great opportunity to express our opinions on how things can be improved. Any forum is only as good as those posting there make it; this particular forum has been in decline for a couple of years so I see this thread as a possible way for improvements, possibly quite drastic improvements, to be made.
Paul
Fair enough, Paul, and I’ll accede to that. It clearly is less narrow and goes far deaper than I had discerned.
I hope you all succeed in your endeavours and look forward one day to visiting a greatly improved forum. With no knowledge of how it used to be I will undoubtedly enjoy it even more than I now do.:)
We already know that. It’s always been that way. So again, what’s your point?
Paul
But if it is what is this extended debate about? Posters seem to be criticising the moderation and seeking webmaster guidance, so please enlighten me if I have missed a point.
If the Moderator’s decison is final and is accepted as such, then that’s where ther matter rests, surely? I assure you that I am not being argumentative but clearly not understanding the problem.
Perhaps its now time for the MOD to step in to defuse a developing situation and not using W.B. as a road transit point for the funeral homecoming , using other means at its disposal to Get these ‘Boys’ to there Families and Home Towns ,
Why should we allow what has been a moving and meaningful experience, offending no one locally, as far as we are aware, to be changed because of a “developing situation” provoked by a group acting specifically to cause antagonism and controversy?
Perhaps its now time for the MOD to step in to defuse a developing situation and not using W.B. as a road transit point for the funeral homecoming , using other means at its disposal to Get these ‘Boys’ to there Families and Home Towns ,
Why should we allow what has been a moving and meaningful experience, offending no one locally, as far as we are aware, to be changed because of a “developing situation” provoked by a group acting specifically to cause antagonism and controversy?
If it were clear what your suggestion actually is then I would! You don’t seem to really make one.
Paul
I am sorry it is not clear but here goes again, in very plain English.
The Moderator’s decision is final.
The phrase appears in an episode of “The Odd Couple,” which aired on 16
Feb 1973, title: “My Strife in Court.” If not the origin, this is certainly
when the phrase went mainstream.http://listserv.linguistlist.org/cgi-bin/wa?A2=ind0405b&L=ads-l&P=7605
Perhaps its origin was in the original film made in 1968 with Lemmon and Matthau. The TV series came later with Jack Klugman and…??? memory escapes me.