happy birthday kev, that makes you 27 years older than I :diablo:

and way out of your league like me and blue2 !

happy birthday Kev!

Thanks gents, bearing in mind whats here is just my side of the story, and there is another side, and then after that there is the truth, but it’s nice to see some supporting messages, especially as I’m just trying to keep as much stability as I can for two nippers that had their world turned upside down by me and their mum.

It’s going to happen but the two nippers have had more than enough going on in their worlds without meeting new “uncles” and “aunties” – they have not yet met my partner and we have been together five months, four weeks ago the ex was on a dating site, now its meet Mr Right-now. Jeez, just slow the pace is all I am saying…..

That REALLY is not a pleasant thought!!!! :eek::eek::eek::p

Jon – Shush your face or ill come and help you close it, unfortunately I only break out the jabba costume on VERY special occasions for special people only. Which immediately puts you out of the running 🙂

Graham – You spend your days playing with a hemp coloured hand drier, dont get me started

OH SNAP!

(in case both of you were wondering this diagram should explain it for you)

he gets more like my ex wife every second…. maybe a bit less cold but the anger is there…:eek::rolleyes:

the Ex Mrs asked if she could take our son out this Saturday just “the two of them” as I have taken him to football and Duxford on “her week-ends”, she wanted some one to one time. Yes I say, no dramas. Ask what they are up to, no answer, push, drag racing (WTF ?) who else is going, oh my new man she says…

so, “no” is my reply. Partly as its too soon for kids to meet new partners let alone spend that much time with them, and because she was “economical” with the truth about the whole thing.

That is all

now he wants to play Princess Lea dress up games with me, he could at least go for the “jabba prisoner” bikini look …..:rolleyes:

Saturday for us, only day Ali’s off all weekend. The sign may have to go up in the garage temporarily, in Andre’s Jeep’s parking space… :diablo:
Too many ‘cumfers’ there for my liking yesterday, I suspect… :rolleyes:

He struggles with rejection, poor lad. I did try to let him down gently, which was difficult given the slight air of desperation he had around him… :diablo:

look at posts between 42 & 49 or so on this thread, he seemed a bit desperate but I tried to let him down gently….

How many times do we have to go over this Ben? I let you down after your, er, ‘proposition’ as gently as I could! Rich warned me you wouldn’t take it well… :diablo:

I had the same problem with young Ben, I told him I was out of his league regardless of anything else, but he didn’t take it well at all….:diablo: