Maybe Mrs Grace will sell the Spitfire and take on, say an English Electric Lightning…..:eek: :rolleyes:

a very loud crack followed by a chunk of guttering hanging down during the moonson that just passed over.:mad:

Indeed it is. Watching a Spitfire outside my window at this very moment :cool:.

Can you be banned for posts like that 😉 ? :rolleyes: so not fair ! 😀

I’ll be at the show on Saturday having negotiated with Cruella, my next task is the Burmese government…. that has got to be easier….:diablo:

kev35 described GD as a “Bear pit” at times, it about sums it up but generally IMHO the whole forum has suffered a bit in the past few months with some “sad” episodes.

I’ll second that Baz !

and that from the good Doctor, is the ONLY piece of relationship advice any man should ever need.:rolleyes::cool::D

You have it easy, this is what I’m dealing with from my crazy ex… want to trade?

WTF ?:eek:

You have my sympathies, then again mine were told that they obviously didn’t love their mother as they said they had a nice day out with me…. :rolleyes:

I just try and keep my head down and pick my fights….

have experienced it from both sides, my own marriage went belly up for countless reasons (but not adultery) and part of me still would like to know why, if only to make me a better person and to learn from the mistakes, that said there is no way that the ex and me would ever have that talk.

I would say move on, if she were to tell you, it could have a very negative effect and be hurtful. If it was a crude “he was better than you at…..” it won’t help you. She probably had a reason, after all, generally women need a reason to have sex, men generally just need a place.

But if you know why, it may not help so move on, especially after this amount of time. If you dwell on it, a new partner will pick up on it, or you could transfer fear and mistrust to that new partner. I have found at the age of 45 starting out again, we all have enough baggage, no need to bring along any more.